Mary Jane's Shoes

Mary Jane's Shoes

Musings of one person among many. Not exceptional in any way, as with all, I have exceptional experiences and varied reactions to those events. Mine is one of many life stories and how I manage and cope with the events which make my life my own, I attempt to put forth by way of my writings.

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True Exposure Between Two

November 19, 2016


Do any of us ever expose our entirety, to one person? Are we capable of such? 


To the soulmate, to use the cliche term, we may believe we do. At first heartfelt response, I personally believe I do. I want to believe I do. 


 Why is this at all important, worthy of any discussion? To bring health to relationships, this is why it is worthy. To be fully, emotionally entwined with another is the importance. To me honesty, and being forthcoming, with all known feelings and thoughts, is paramount to trust and full all-encompassing love. Secrets cannot reside in what one holds as a true relationship. In this regard, not my usual stance on a vast majority of issues, I am firmly black and white. 


There is an operative word I wrote above this paragraph…known. Known feelings. This implies that there exist unrecognized emotions. There one is off the hook so to speak. One may feel but not recognize. These are not expressed to the soulmate, unless he/she can read between the lines. Once the owner recognizes the emotion, honesty is the rule; this is my guideline. It may not be your way of thinking and acting. This is your belief and is accepted as such. Differences keep the human species safe and evolving. 


In my mind, all thought about said relationship should be relinquished to the loved one. Relinquishing is equivalent to complete loving. 
It is as the flower blooms and gives itself fully to sunlight. It is as the water moves downstream and gives itself completely to the cut rock and falls. 


Again, you may not feel these thoughts are an accurate take; and again, if true, these are what bring evolution to our sameness. 


These are simply my evening thoughts. 


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